Before you Commit --- Stop, Look, and Listen (by Dr. Truth)

When a woman decides to commit to a man, she gives not just her heart, but her soul and whole being as well. She surrenders her loyalty and faithfulness. She makes his needs a priority. She makes it a point to take care of him, help him with his plans and supports his goals. She encourages him when he hit rock bottom and inspires him to be on his best element. A man who is blessed with a woman’s love and commitment is truly an anointed man.

It’s just right that when a woman decides to love and commit herself, she must choose a man worthy of her love and commitment. This is only possible when she can set her standards right. And the right standards that every woman should have is find a man who can be equally committed, loyal and faithful to her, a man who can love her for who she is, a man who is willing to provide and protect, a man who can be proud of her and let the whole world know that she is his woman.

Never sell yourself short. You deserve the right man and the right kind of love.

Now, if you are with a man who doesn’t want to commit, Ask yourself:

1) Do I really really want a relationship? If so, why be with someone who doesn't?

2) If I really have confidence in myself, why am I with someone who I have to try to convince to be with me?

One of the problems with women who continue on with men who won't commit is that something in their own past has made them frightened of commitment themselves. Remember that we usually choose our own "mirror image" when it comes to mate selection. If you are with a man like this, he is probably reflecting your own issues right back to you.

If he doesn't want to commit he either has his own issues to work through or else he just isn't ready. In that case, there is nothing you can do about this except to choose a direction that is more emotionally satisfying.

As far as my advice, I think it's pretty clear.

Walk away!!!

Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth